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To say that the recent statements of ‘Actress’, Lauren London – in a “King Magazine” interview – is disquieting, is both an underestimation and misunderstanding of the potency attached to the wordage of certain celebrities within our community. Young Black Women are continuously lusting after the aptly-described “ruffnecks” and “thugged-out” brothers within our culture. It was in 1993, when MC Lyte, rapped – on a song called “Ruffneck,” from the album, “Aint No Other” – “I need a ruffneck/I need a dude with attitude/Who only needs his fingers with his food/Karl Kani saggin’ timbos draggin’/Frontin’ in his ride with his home boys braggin’/Lying ’bout the Lyte how he knocked boots last night/But he’s a ruffneck so that’s alright.” At the time, such allusions were looked upon as little other than artistic-expression, but with the rise in domestic-abuse among black households, such sentiments are beginning to lead to open clues vis-à-vis black-female misjudment. It is an ancient blurb that the good guy always finishes last, but Miss London seemed to put the L in Ludicrous with her recent morally-reprehensible comments. When asked by the interviewer of her choice in men, she replied: 

“An authentic gangsta—that deletes about half the rap game off your list. I love guys who are street. I won’t even give soft guys a chance. Menace II Society is my shit! Caine was like my first crush. Actually, O-Dog was my true dream guy. I was in love with him, from that opening scene where he pops the convenience-store worker. He had me from that gunshot [laughs]. He was ’hood, and I loved that.”

– With such statements, it is no wonder our culture is dissipating faster than the dreams of ‘authentic’ actresses who are more than qualified, but are turned around as a result of their stead-fast belief in integrity. That therefore ‘deletes’ Ms. London off any such list.

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