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December 8, 2009 He’s Afraid of a Big Ol Butt?

He’s afraid of the Big Bad Butt!! December 8th

by Nicole Spence 

Hey People!
Sorry I’ve been gone finals have been kicking my ass! But, Wednesday is the last day of school so I’ll be all yours again! 
Any who of course I got an interesting story, a tale of some bullshit! 
You know when I was a little girl my Uncle Mark always used to tease me about my big butt! He would always let me know, that when I grew up my boyfriend would love me for it though! Considering I was a little girl, and insecure about this big ol’ Rice n Peas butt, I didn’t know what he was talking about. I thought I was fat! 
Fast forward I grew up and my butt grew in size as well, and my Uncle Marky never lied! The Boys loved me for it. Well at least the ones that could handle the butt did! Lol. 
With that said one of my bootylicous girlfriends went out with this rapper, with only one record under his belt the other night and check what he had to say! 
You know I gotta leave names out so let’s call her Jenny! Well I love Jenny’s shape, she’s a thick girl, but not too thick, and a very pretty face! 
Here she was out to dinner with this lame eating and talking, and he tells her "you know Jenny you’re the first thick girl that I’ve ever dated"! Really? "Why" she asked! He goes on to tell her that he "normally likes to date smaller girls, because his joint looks bigger while hitting it from the back!!!" WTF?? Apparently he feels that with Thick girls, it creates a bit of an optical illusion, where his dick just magically looks smaller in comparison to a big ol’ booty!!
Now isn’t that some bullshit! Clearly your joint is just small! I thought a big booty just personified "Smash"! And you know his butt is all chubby and out of shape, but he wants to put emphasis on my girl’s body! I think not, you Loser! Accept your small tool and deal with it, don’t try to make her feel insecure at the party! 
Man I remember when I was younger, just new to sex, I had no idea about positions and so forth, just knew about the "IN, Out, IN!" But you know you’re still curious, so you talk about it with your girl and guy friends! I remember it like it was yesterday, when my friend at the time Tiba, asked me if I was receiving "back shots"! When I told him No, he questioned why! I had no answer for him, but he could tell by the look on my face that I was wondering too. So he said to me, please don’t think its because you’re butt is too big! Tiba knew I was insecure about my womanly body back then! "That dude ain’t hitting it from the back, because he can’t reach Nic, not because of you!" That shit never left my head, Yea! Its not me, it’s him! "He can’t work the middle, cuz his thing’s too little!" Lmao! 
Ahhh but I say all this to say, sometimes these dudes have a way of putting their insecurities on you to carry! Fuck that, let them carry their own shit! Love your body, and Rep every chance you get! Confidence is the sexiest thing you can wear in the bedroom, and now a days I never leave home without it! Church!

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